How can I get a notification every time a Java application starts?

I just wrote my first server in Java and I am running it on a computer on my home network. It is running on a computer that I currently only use for running servers for games that I play with my friends. In order for my server to run, the program opens up a port to listen for connections, and I had to allow access in Windows Firewall for java.exe to open up ports.

Is there a way for me to be notified whenever java.exe starts up? I want to know if some other Java program starts on my computer without me realizing it. Is this something I should be concerned about?

EDIT: It is a simple server that is for accepting HTTP requests.